By Shelly Davidson

While walking through a crowd, you hear the chatter and laughter all around. You see couples walking by smiling and holding hands. You wonder to yourself, how did they meet? Did they meet at the grocery store, while during laundry or are they result of an internet dating connection?

Just about now you're wishing that you were part of a twosome. You're not alone; almost everyone has felt this way at one point or another. Along with this wish they wonder why they haven't found that special someone yet. Because that's the way things are supposed to go, right? You go to school, start a career, fall in love.

Along with that, many people even hope to get married one day and maybe have children. Perfect right? Then in an instant your plans seems to change. One thing to remember is not give up. If you keep positive and remain aggressive, it will be only a matter of time before you meet someone and have the life you want.

In the meantime it's important that you live your life to the fullest. While you're single, take advantage of the situation by doing things that you might not be able to do if you were part of a twosome.

1.You can take off at a moment's notice. Picture this; your best friend was able to get tickets for a concert that you really wanted to see. You couldn't get tickets. She's decided to surprise you and has invited you along. See? No one's feelings will get hurt if you just pick up and go.

2. Since you're not part of a twosome, you can date as many people, and as often, as you'd like. While you're narrowing down your list of "must have" and "would like" you get to know people that wouldn't have a chance of meeting up with if you were attached.

3. You get your whole living (and sleeping) space to yourself. No sharing the remote, no one hogging the blankets. You can stay up and sleep in as late as you want, and play the music you want whenever you want.

4. Accept party invitations or happy hour events at anytime without having to call to let your partner know where you are for the evening.

5. You don't have to cook and can eat out as much as you please. Also, you can keep your place as neat or as sloppy as you like.

Okay, I'll be the first to admit that the above points are selfish. But that's the point; get it out of your system before you settle down. When you do meet someone that's right for you, chances are you'll be just fine with the idea of changing your perspective.

It could also help you make the decision as to whether or not you are ready to date at all. Dating when with the right person can be an amazing experience, but you should try to enjoy and make the most of your single life while waiting to meet the love of your life.

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