By Darryl Fluellen


You should know that the human ego is not present only in adults; children also have an ego that needs to be stroked with the utmost wisdom to bring out the best of the child.

Children who suffer from a poor self image about themselves eventually proceed to fail at everything they touch; their careers, relationships and dreams....those that have a high self image are just the opposite, they excel in everything they do. The process of building self esteem in a child should starts at the childhood stage; at that stage the child is malleable and is just forming an opinion base..... That is the time to instill a sense of self worth into a child.

I would like to advise that if you haven't been doing a lot to instill a feeling of self-worth and self-love in your child, it isn't too late to start now....a lifetime of pain can be erased the moment the decision to love is made. Always remember that it is the little things that count; displaying your child's first 'A' on the refrigerator or hanging his/her first attempt at painting on the living room wall can impact greatly on a child.

Statistics link happy people to the possession of a high level of self esteem; this only goes to show that people who are enthusiastic have a high level of belief in themselves and are mostly achievers. Building self esteem can be a fun game instead of a nerve racking your child doing things together can make life interesting and help your child know that you value his/her opinions.

Get your child to stand in front of a mirror and examine herself or himself and repeat words that boost his/her morale; the essence of this exercise is to imprint a positive self image in the mind of the child.




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