When God created Adam and Eve, he created them each unique and special in their own way. However, the differences that they exist between man and woman have been known to cause a few arguments. Men and women think differently, they behave differently, they have different roles, and they feel differently about everything. Because of these differences, there are bound to be arguments and times when the man is going to upset his woman. Therefore he is going to need some help in getting himself out of the dog house. The following list of gestures was compiled for just that!
1. Send Her Flowers. Flowers are not guaranteed to fix all of your problems, but they are a great place to start, especially if the woman in your life is not speaking to you at the moment. Flowers are a sure fire way to soften up any woman's heart. For extra effect, make sure that you send them to her at her job where plenty of people are going to see and make sure that the arrangement is extravagant. This public display will warm her heart and put her in the right mood for talking to you. Also make sure you send a note with the flowers that truly expresses your sincerest apology.
2. Give Her Jewelry. Marilyn Monroe said it best in the movie Gentlemen Prefer Blondes: "Diamonds are a girl's best friend". Surprise your lady with a beautiful necklace, bracelet, ring, or pair of earrings. Don't bother with fake if you can't afford real though. Also, don't expect your major purchase to end the argument. You are still going to have to talk about the underlying issue and work to resolve it.
3. Cater To Her For A Day. Women spend a lot of time caring for and pampering the men in their lives so reciprocate her actions. Make her feel warm and special and loved and appreciated. Run her bath water with rose petals and bubbles in it, be her personal masseuse, comb her hair if she will let you. Let her know that she means something to you and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to mend the relationship.
4. Take Her On A Surprise Trip. Book a trip to an exotic location for just the two of you. Make sure that you have your lady clear a weekend so that you are sure to not be intruding on any of her plans. Have her mother, sister, or best friend pack a bag for her, or don't pack a bag at all and let her go shopping when you get to your destination. Pick her up from work on a Friday afternoon and take her to the airport for start of a romantic vacation for two. She will not only be completely surprise, but will definitely be ready to talk and let you back into her heart.
5. Give Her Something She's Always Wanted. Women often talk about things that they want but have never gotten. If you're lady has ever done this, then it's your job to make her dream come true. Bottom line, get back into your woman's heart and you will have the tools you need to not only resolve your issues, but to get out of the dog house too!
1. Send Her Flowers. Flowers are not guaranteed to fix all of your problems, but they are a great place to start, especially if the woman in your life is not speaking to you at the moment. Flowers are a sure fire way to soften up any woman's heart. For extra effect, make sure that you send them to her at her job where plenty of people are going to see and make sure that the arrangement is extravagant. This public display will warm her heart and put her in the right mood for talking to you. Also make sure you send a note with the flowers that truly expresses your sincerest apology.
2. Give Her Jewelry. Marilyn Monroe said it best in the movie Gentlemen Prefer Blondes: "Diamonds are a girl's best friend". Surprise your lady with a beautiful necklace, bracelet, ring, or pair of earrings. Don't bother with fake if you can't afford real though. Also, don't expect your major purchase to end the argument. You are still going to have to talk about the underlying issue and work to resolve it.
3. Cater To Her For A Day. Women spend a lot of time caring for and pampering the men in their lives so reciprocate her actions. Make her feel warm and special and loved and appreciated. Run her bath water with rose petals and bubbles in it, be her personal masseuse, comb her hair if she will let you. Let her know that she means something to you and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to mend the relationship.
4. Take Her On A Surprise Trip. Book a trip to an exotic location for just the two of you. Make sure that you have your lady clear a weekend so that you are sure to not be intruding on any of her plans. Have her mother, sister, or best friend pack a bag for her, or don't pack a bag at all and let her go shopping when you get to your destination. Pick her up from work on a Friday afternoon and take her to the airport for start of a romantic vacation for two. She will not only be completely surprise, but will definitely be ready to talk and let you back into her heart.
5. Give Her Something She's Always Wanted. Women often talk about things that they want but have never gotten. If you're lady has ever done this, then it's your job to make her dream come true. Bottom line, get back into your woman's heart and you will have the tools you need to not only resolve your issues, but to get out of the dog house too!
About the Author:
Sheila Dollarsby and her husband do their fair share of arguing. When he is really sorry though he will usually order an arrangement of flowers from 1800 Flowers. He does not use the flowers from 1800 Flowers as a way to solve problems, but simply as a way to apologize and open the door to healthy communication and conflict resolution.
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