By Tyler Armstrong

If your ex girlfriend is seeing someone new, the hurt can oftentimes seem unsufferable. And it makes perfect sense; your girlfriend was probably a big part of your life for the past few months or even years, and now she appears to be a part of somebody else's happiness, leaving you with a big empty, gaping hole in your life. If you want any hope of getting your girlfriend back, let me give you a little bit of advice.

Many people make the mistake of trusting what their girlfriends tell them for why they no longer want to be a couple, which is a huge mistake. It's not that your girlfriend is purposely lying to you, but she is attempting to spare your feelings. The harsh truth is that the reason your woman is no longer with you is that somewhere down the line, she lost attraction for you. It is an indisputable fact that a girl is not able to stay away from a man that she is both in love with and attracted to.

Before you read this and give up on getting your girlfriend back, I want you to understand something. Just because your girlfriend lost attraction for you does not mean that you cannot get her to come back to you, because you can. All it takes is an understanding of female psychology. If you understand how your girlfriend's mind works, then you can make her attracted to you all over again. This may sound a little manipulative, so let me clarify some things for you.

If you have good intentions for your girlfriend, and only want her back to make her happy, then why should you feel bad about using a few manipulative tricks to win her back? You shouldn't. You obviously care about your girlfriend to be researching ways to get her back in the first place. Chances are, you care about her more than and will treat her better than the new guy that she is dating.

Unfortunately, simply caring about your girlfriend is not enough to make your girlfriend come back to you. For your girlfriend to want to dump her new guy and come back to you, it will mean you have to attract her all over again.

Do not get disheartened at these words either. Understand that it was you who attracted your girlfriend in the first place, before this new guy was even on the map. And you can do it again!

If you want your girlfriend to be with you instead of with this new guy, you need to take a little bit of time to really understand how your girlfriend thinks and what she is attracted to. If you do that, then it won't even matter that your ex girlfriend is dating someone else. You'll know all of the secrets of attracting her, and the other guy won't.

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