By Lynn Huber

"I cannot say goodbye to you, no matter how I try."

Many couples who have devoted time and emotions AND given up their desires tend the share the same feelings about the above line. It is really wrong to end a relationship just because troubles and challenges have arrived. If you can still work on your relationship, then work it out! Almost all relationships deserve a second chance, or even and third and a fourth. Quit looking at the past, just nourish what you have now.

Almost all relationships are "salvageable", "adjustable" and "workable" except, of course for those abusive ones. Cases of abuse relationships should end. There is no point in preserving an abusive relationship whether physical, emotional or verbal.

For relationships that you feel are still worthy to come back to, the point is this: It is just a matter of putting things in order and looking at the situation at an entirely different perspective. Do you still want him/her in your life? Are you willing to save the relationship? Is it worthwhile to save the relationship?

For couples who go their separate ways and as a vocal clamor for divorce strengthens even more, you might ask, "Is saving my relationship even possible?" The answer is a sound YES. There is no conclusiveness to a relationship when the two of you are still willing and able to change for the better and doing something to make things right.

Is it simple to let go when most relationships become too entangling? You share your private thoughts and feelings and the attachment is not just physical but also emotional. The toughest thing to do in a relationship is saying goodbye. As much as you possibly can, try not to say goodbye, just put an end to any trouble, squabbling or pain and go back to first base.

Although the process of saving a relationship is a daunting task, be willing to go through the action just the same as you were more than willing to be involved with the person in the first place.

Saving your relationship is not only possible, it can be made better. If you still want that love in your life, then go back to the beginning and put in the effort. Your love can be stronger than ever. - 27772

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